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Ep 108: 11 Years of Silence: Why "Time Heals" is a lie with guest Shruti

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In this deeply moving episode, Sharna sits down with Shruti Trivedi, ICF-ACC certified life coach and founder of Tulsi Heals Life Coaching, to discuss her journey through five pregnancies, three losses, and the 11-year path to finally addressing her grief.

Shruti shares the raw reality of her experiences—from terminating a pregnancy at nine weeks on New Year's Eve 2011 to delivering her identical twin boys at 23 weeks on her daughter's birthday after a rollercoaster journey through twin-to-twin transfusion syndrome. Most powerfully, she opens up about the years spent avoiding her grief, the panic attacks that kept resurfacing, and the transformative decision to finally seek therapy.

In This Episode, We Discuss:

  • The reality of pregnancy loss at different stages and how the body responds
  • Why "time heals" is only partially true—you must actively participate in your healing
  • Breaking through the stigma around mental health and therapy
  • The harmful phrases grieving mothers hear ("you can try again," "at least you have other children")
  • Why pregnancy losses often aren't recognized as "real" losses—and why that's so damaging
  • The importance of being vulnerable in front of your children
  • How seeking therapy isn't weakness—it's strength
  • Treating mental health with the same importance as physical health
  • The concept of "mental cleansing" as essential as brushing your teeth

Key Takeaways:

  • "Self-care isn't being selfish" - Shruti's tagline reminds us that taking care of ourselves isn't just okay, it's necessary for our healing and our ability to show up for others.
  • Hidden stories are everywhere - Even people you've known for 10+ years may be carrying their own pregnancy loss stories in silence.
  • Validation is powerful - Sometimes the most important thing therapy provides is simply witnessing your experience and confirming: "Yes, this is trauma. Yes, this needs to be addressed. Yes, your feelings are valid."
  • The importance of seeking professional therapy vs. relying solely on family/friends
  • Understanding that physical and mental health are interconnected—not separate entities
  • Finding a therapist: It's okay to try different therapists until you find the right fit

Connect with Shruti:

Shruti works with working mothers and professionals to release guilt, prioritize self-care, and embrace mental wellbeing with compassion and courage.

  • Book a complimentary session through the links in her social media bios

About Tulsi Heals: The name honours Shruti's twin boys, with the logo's two leaves representing them. Tulsi is a holy Indian basil plant in Hindu culture, making this work deeply meaningful and connected to her journey.

 

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Remember: You don't have to heal alone. Your grief is valid, your babies mattered, and seeking support is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Trigger Warning: This episode contains detailed discussions of pregnancy loss, miscarriage, and stillbirth.